...some light from ahead

I've been traveling up/down a twisting road for several years now...
and there have been both, "ups" & "downs" aplenty...

sometimes the way is shrouded in a mist or dark with danger...
and the fear & stress zap me, big time...
sometimes there is more light, ahead, and I feel more secure...
but always, the end is nowhere in sight...

moments of stress and fear for the outcome...
can turn into calm & peace as I learn to let go and trust Him...
and though the stench of sulphur in the air...
doesn't always dissipate quickly or completely...

the more I trust, the less I smell it...
and the quicker I can deal with expelling it...
regaining the calm center of trust that I need to keep...
to allow God to have His will be done...

I've been concerned lately with some large bills...
[property taxes, car registration renewal, car insurance 6 mo. renewal]
all due in early December, [2nd,8th & 10th]...

I've also been finally "caught up with" by my 2nd mortgage holder...
they sent me a registered letter, which I responded to...
but the next day, they left a letter taped to my front door...
and last night, their representative made a second appearance at my door...

he was an older man, [my age], wearing a tie and was very kind...
he listened as I explained some of my situation...
I told him that I wasn't answering the phone calls...
because I only had a limited number of minutes & couldn't afford large bills...

that I was working with a HUD agency to try & modify my 1st mortgage...
but that it hadn't gone through yet...
and that I had a call into them re the 2nd mortgage holder...
that I had spent ALL my savings paying my bills while looking for work...
work I still haven't found...
that my pension didn't cover both mortgage payments...
and that I had no funds to pay the 2nd mortgage holder...
or the credit card companies...

...all true...

I didn't mention the words, "lawyer" or "bankruptcy"...
both the lawyer AND the HUD people have advised me...
that I should volunteer as little of that kind of information as possible...

so the very nice man, who was sympathetic to my situation...
said that he would inform the 2nd mortgage holder of my situation...

I alluded that when I contacted the HUD agency again...
I would discuss the possibility of trying to modify the 2nd...
but that I had been told to do one thing at a time...
[which is true...]

the lawyer has advised me against modifying the 2nd...
and to put it into the bankruptcy action...
but if the 2nd mortgage holder would significantly reduce the principal...
really lower the interest, thus cutting the payment drastically...
I might consider it, if I could swing it financially...

I'm really just stalling for time...
hoping the modification on the 1st mortgage goes through...
and soon...

the elephant in the room is that the total amount that I'm upside down...
in the 1st & 2nd together...
is equal to the current value of my house...
so including the 2nd in the bankruptcy may be my only choice...

but the timing is critical...

and the path for this part of the journey is still obscured...
as is the timing, out of my hands...
I'm just glad that God is in charge...

along other fronts...

it has been my experience that when God is truly working things out for me...
that things just seem to fall into place... out of the blue...
beyond anything that I could engineer or manipulate...
so I consider the appearance of this very nice & sympathetic man...
from the bank, that I needed to make contact with but had to control information to...
on my doorstep, making non-threatening contact with me...
to be one of those organic works of God...

it has allowed me to release some built-up anxiety that I wasn't aware of...

so this morning, after balancing my checking account...
I felt it was time to look at some of these impending bills...

I had heard back from the Social Security Administration...
the morning after I applied for benefits and will start receiving payments...
on December 22... for a whole $228... not the $540 I was due...

they deducted my CalSTRS pension & arrived at the $228...
I suppose I should be grateful for that...
most of my retired teacher friends get nothing...
but then they get more from CalSTRS as they worked longer...

so I knew that I wouldn't have a timely payment from SS...
to help out with the BIG, early December bills...
the first of which was the 6 month car insurance renewal...
$446 due on December 2, 2010...

I read the back of my car insurance bill...
and learned something useful in the small print...

I could pay on a monthly payment plan...
which I had been avoiding due to the installment fees charged...
without being charged an installment fee...
IF I was enrolled in the auto-pay program...

I have been in the auto-pay program for a while...
but for a 4 month[$112 per/mo] payment plan...
which I would "trump" by paying the full amount...
to avoid any installment fees...
but neither of those plans, suit my situation at this time...
and whereas their website allows me to change my payment method...
it does NOT allow me to change the payment plan...

so after changing my payment method back to my checking account...
[from the credit card that now hates me and has "suspended" my account...]
I called the 800 number, attempted to speak to a computerized menu...
waited through a number of annoying "prompts & ads"...
mostly telling me how I could do everything, "online"...

then finally spoke to a nice young man...
who changed my payment plan to a monthly one[$75per/mo]...

there would be NO installment fee...

then I went back to my online banking & transferred money...
so my payment of $75 on 11/17 would be funded...

having done that, I no longer had enough money left in savings...
to pay the $149 car registration renewal due on Dec.8, 2010...
so I went online to the DMV site...
and found that I could use a credit card to pay the renewal fee...

however, even though I had just gotten a new card from B&N...
with a $500 credit limit and I had owed them zero for a long time...
I had stopped using that card because even though I had credit...
they would often decline it...

but I figured, nothing ventured, nothing gained...
so I entered in the credit card info on the renewal page...
and it was accepted !!!

so now, as opposed to a couple of days ago...

I have taken care of both the car insurance issue...
AND the registration renewal issue...
have made contact with the 2nd mortgage holder...
and found out that the B&N credit card does work !

of course, there are still the property taxes due on 12/10/10...
and the new monthly expenses for the car insurance premium...
and the credit card I used...
but there's also the SS benefit of $228...

and hope for a speedy resolution to the mortgage modification situation...
with the attendant bankruptcy issues...

there seems to be light around the bend...
God is good...